Have you ever wanted to be able to walk up to a girl and have her attention form the first instant with a great conversation starter? Or maybe you simply don’t want to get blown off when you try to talk to new people. Whatever the case the opener to the conversation is going to be the crucial part of the interaction that answers her questions of “Who are you and why are you talking to me?”.
A good opener should be non-threatening and have a reason for bringing it up.
Where I live people play a game (as kids) called “Duck, Duck, Goose”, but some people call the game “Duck, Duck, Grey Duck”. So an opener I’ve used that has opened every time I’ve used it is : “Hey guys, I was just talking about this with my friends. When you were a kid did you play ‘Duck, Duck, Goose’ or ‘Duck, Duck, Grey Duck’? I played Grey Duck but my friend played Goose. How about you?”
It’s a great opener because it’s non-threatening, you tell them why you are asking, and it gives people a reason to talk about something that will (hopefully) remind them of their happy/fun childhood.
Try digging out some of your old chestnuts and see what happens.
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Wednesday, October 22, 2008
Sunday, October 19, 2008
Does the Law of Attraction Really Work?
Does the Law of Attraction really work? No, not if you don't think it will. The Law of Attraction states that you will get what you focus on, so if you focus on, and continually point out, the times times the Law of Attraction isn't working then it won't.
Here in lies the paradox, because the Law gives you what you focus on, when you focus on finding ways to disprove the it, you are actually using the Law of Attraction to find those things to disprove it.
If you say “The Law of Attraction doesn't work for this reason, that reason, and another reason” and you go to google and type in something like law of attraction scam, I'm sure you will find a bunch of articles backing up your theory that it doesn't work. So because you wanted to people and articles who don't believe the law works – you did.
Now do the opposite search. Go to google again and type in something like “how to make the law of attraction work for me” and you will find people and articles all telling you how to make the Law of Attraction work in your favor.
So does the Law of Attraction really work? Not if you don't want it too. If you keep focusing on the negative - you will get the negative. Make the law work for you or against you, it's your choice.
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Here in lies the paradox, because the Law gives you what you focus on, when you focus on finding ways to disprove the it, you are actually using the Law of Attraction to find those things to disprove it.
If you say “The Law of Attraction doesn't work for this reason, that reason, and another reason” and you go to google and type in something like law of attraction scam, I'm sure you will find a bunch of articles backing up your theory that it doesn't work. So because you wanted to people and articles who don't believe the law works – you did.
Now do the opposite search. Go to google again and type in something like “how to make the law of attraction work for me” and you will find people and articles all telling you how to make the Law of Attraction work in your favor.
So does the Law of Attraction really work? Not if you don't want it too. If you keep focusing on the negative - you will get the negative. Make the law work for you or against you, it's your choice.
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