Today I found a great article about the higher self and the law of attraction. (I've posted it below) It doesn't directly pertain to dating but I will add my own quick perspectives as a summary with dating help included in case you don't have time to read the whole article.
Summary: A lot of people talk about the LoA just in terms of "feeling good" and focusing on the positive. That is very important, it is also important to pay attention to your inner self, your inner voice, your hunches. If you are on a date and something about this girl give you a bad vibe, you might want to consider listening to it. You will probably find that you are right to walk away from this one. Learning to listen to your Higher Self is very helpful and also builds confidence over time. Take the time to notice when your hunches from your Higher Self are right.
Resource not from the article: You may also want to check out the book at Attraction Via Attraction.com . It's only $7 and can help you find your soul mate sooner rather then later.
Now the article I was telling you about:
How to draw genuine love to you using the Law of Attraction by Cucan Pemo
The Law of Attraction is one of the most powerful laws in the universe. According to it like attracts like. That is why creatures of the same kind attract each other. Wherever there is one ant, you will find many more; wherever there is one farmer you will find several farmers; wherever there is a lone sheep or cow you will find a herd. We all know that wolves hunt in groups; and fish swim in packs. But have we tried to find out why?
We never analyze how we make friends or companions. But if we do we will find that our friends are like us in most ways. They share the same values, the same lifestyles, the same ideas, and the same goals. This is what the Law of Attraction does; it brings all those things together that are alike.
True love
Most successful marriages are those where the man and woman are alike. The marriages where men and women have different tastes, different likes and different interests don't last long. They fall apart. The apparent reasons for these marriages falling apart may be stress, workplace pressure or extra-marital affairs, but the base reason is always the same. The union in the first place was of two people who were not alike. They came together against the Law of Attraction. That is why they could not stay together even though they were bound by vows of holy matrimony.
In contrast, two individuals who are alike continue to live together as man and woman under the same roof even if they are not married. The society may frown on such relationships but it cannot force such couples to part ways. They have been brought together by the Law of Attraction. Theirs is not a relationship of convenience; theirs is a relationship based on shared values, shared likes and shared goals. This is what true love is. It is the joining of two hearts, two minds and two bodies that are alike.
How to draw true love
True love takes shape without our knowledge. In fact, have we ever stopped and wondered why we are attracted to a particular girl or a particular boy? There may be ten girls in a class of 25. How is it that we are attracted to one girl alone? How is it that we continue to come closer to that girl only, and not to other girls who may be equally pretty?
The first reaction of any such couple is that they are alike. Great. But how did they find each other? They were lucky; of course. They happened to be in the same class, is what they will tell you. But what about millions of other couples? Some met on a road, some in a train, some at a local dance, some in the church. But all bonded together. How?
This is where true love comes in. You don't have to find true love; it finds you. You only have to recognize it. On first reading, it may sound bizarre. But the reality is that our thoughts are not limited to our mind. They are like waves of energy that keep radiating from our minds. When this energy collides with similar energy radiating from another mind, true love springs up. This is what we call a meeting of minds.
Love and lust
It is also love at first sight. However, for this love to blossom and bloom it has to go past physical lust. Often, the physical desire blocks the thoughts that our minds are radiating. We are so obsessed with each other that our minds refuse to tune in to each other's thoughts. Such relationships, even when they get converted into marriage, are unlikely to last long.
That is why dating is so useful. It gives couples sufficient time to listen to each other's unspoken thoughts. Their minds either continue to come closer or move apart. That is why we say that at times young couples have a mind of their own. They may be heartbroken if such relationships break. But their grief would only be temporary. The heartbreak would be much worse if the couples don't listen to their inner mind, and hope that they can change their partners once they get married. It will never happen..
Healthy relationships
The Law of Attraction is not limited to the world of love alone. It operates in the professional and the social world too. It is this law that brings two individuals together to forge a successful business partnership. It is also this law that brings two thieves or two crooks together - because their minds radiate the same thoughts.
Everything would be so simple if this law worked properly. Individuals who shared the same likes would live together; individuals who shared different viewpoints would live in their own world. But this does not happen. How often do we read in newspapers of a good man destroyed by a trusted colleague? How often we share tales of a rich man lured by a shark?
This happens when we switch off our mental antennas or when we close our minds to negative thoughts. We get blinded by our desires. There is no meeting of minds but a meeting of interests. When this happens we are bound to lose. This is where good men go astray.
That is why it is important to build social or professional relationships with an open mind. If you get a feeling that everything is not right about a person you have met, you must respect that feeling. Don't allow monetary interests to overpower your feelings. Avoid that individual before it is too late.
This will allow you to build relationships that are in your interest, relationships that you will cherish - not regret.
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Wednesday, November 19, 2008
Wednesday, October 22, 2008
Conversation starters
Have you ever wanted to be able to walk up to a girl and have her attention form the first instant with a great conversation starter? Or maybe you simply don’t want to get blown off when you try to talk to new people. Whatever the case the opener to the conversation is going to be the crucial part of the interaction that answers her questions of “Who are you and why are you talking to me?”.
A good opener should be non-threatening and have a reason for bringing it up.
Where I live people play a game (as kids) called “Duck, Duck, Goose”, but some people call the game “Duck, Duck, Grey Duck”. So an opener I’ve used that has opened every time I’ve used it is : “Hey guys, I was just talking about this with my friends. When you were a kid did you play ‘Duck, Duck, Goose’ or ‘Duck, Duck, Grey Duck’? I played Grey Duck but my friend played Goose. How about you?”
It’s a great opener because it’s non-threatening, you tell them why you are asking, and it gives people a reason to talk about something that will (hopefully) remind them of their happy/fun childhood.
Try digging out some of your old chestnuts and see what happens.
Resources:
Law of Attraction Dating
Attract Women Now!
Learn more about the what the Law of Attraction can do for your love life
A good opener should be non-threatening and have a reason for bringing it up.
Where I live people play a game (as kids) called “Duck, Duck, Goose”, but some people call the game “Duck, Duck, Grey Duck”. So an opener I’ve used that has opened every time I’ve used it is : “Hey guys, I was just talking about this with my friends. When you were a kid did you play ‘Duck, Duck, Goose’ or ‘Duck, Duck, Grey Duck’? I played Grey Duck but my friend played Goose. How about you?”
It’s a great opener because it’s non-threatening, you tell them why you are asking, and it gives people a reason to talk about something that will (hopefully) remind them of their happy/fun childhood.
Try digging out some of your old chestnuts and see what happens.
Resources:
Law of Attraction Dating
Attract Women Now!
Learn more about the what the Law of Attraction can do for your love life
Sunday, October 19, 2008
Does the Law of Attraction Really Work?
Does the Law of Attraction really work? No, not if you don't think it will. The Law of Attraction states that you will get what you focus on, so if you focus on, and continually point out, the times times the Law of Attraction isn't working then it won't.
Here in lies the paradox, because the Law gives you what you focus on, when you focus on finding ways to disprove the it, you are actually using the Law of Attraction to find those things to disprove it.
If you say “The Law of Attraction doesn't work for this reason, that reason, and another reason” and you go to google and type in something like law of attraction scam, I'm sure you will find a bunch of articles backing up your theory that it doesn't work. So because you wanted to people and articles who don't believe the law works – you did.
Now do the opposite search. Go to google again and type in something like “how to make the law of attraction work for me” and you will find people and articles all telling you how to make the Law of Attraction work in your favor.
So does the Law of Attraction really work? Not if you don't want it too. If you keep focusing on the negative - you will get the negative. Make the law work for you or against you, it's your choice.
Resources:
Here in lies the paradox, because the Law gives you what you focus on, when you focus on finding ways to disprove the it, you are actually using the Law of Attraction to find those things to disprove it.
If you say “The Law of Attraction doesn't work for this reason, that reason, and another reason” and you go to google and type in something like law of attraction scam, I'm sure you will find a bunch of articles backing up your theory that it doesn't work. So because you wanted to people and articles who don't believe the law works – you did.
Now do the opposite search. Go to google again and type in something like “how to make the law of attraction work for me” and you will find people and articles all telling you how to make the Law of Attraction work in your favor.
So does the Law of Attraction really work? Not if you don't want it too. If you keep focusing on the negative - you will get the negative. Make the law work for you or against you, it's your choice.
Resources:
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